Both my parents will receive a letter from the city of Amsterdam informing them of the change made to my birth certificate. With this letter they will be informed that they can also make a change to their citizen registration allowing them to state that they did not get a son but daughter instead.
I expected my mother to make use of this option and she already said she will (thanks mom ππ).
As for my dad, I have no clue and basically I don’t care at all. My parents divorced when I was 5. After that my dad and I have had contact for roughly 2 years in ’97/’98 and parted with bad feelings.
The employee said that sometimes a letter could get lost in administration. Honestly, I don’t give a fuck what he does with the knowledge of my legal gender change and if he will confirm it or not. The only reason I want him to receive it is that his wife knows, for I like her a lot.